I've just purchased a cloud VPS and installed Ubuntu Server 13.04 on it and that is pretty much all of my Linux knowledge.

Can someone point me to the best up to date tutorial on setting up Ubuntu Web Server?

I need the standard stuff:

1. LAMP


2. FTP Server


3. Mail Server


4. DNS Server to point my domain to it.

Most of what I found were tutorials on setting up server on PC which is rather different then setting up server for productive purposes.

Also I'm paranoid that things might go south, can you tell me what is the routine of managing the server and more or less will I need to manage it at all after the setup?

Thank you in advance.

EDIT: I've found exactly what I was looking for, a perfect solution for all the starters out there who wonder how the hell can a normal person memorize all this linux commands :) here you go:

http://www.howtoforge.com/perfect-server-ubuntu-13.04-apache2-bind-dovecot-ispconfig-3