I'm trying to link my new laptop running 11.10 to my old laptop running 8.04 through my router using SSH.
This question is asked and answered on ubuntuforums here:
http://ubuntuforums.org/showthread.php?t=1648965
I thought it would be helpful to have a more definitive answer here.
Note: I needed to first install openssh-server on the laptop I was trying to connect to and open up the SSH port in my firewall using firestarter.